#amd fucking MIKE BREAKING BAD

[pissfaggit]

Watching the tng movies but I only put them on if the stars line up just perfectly as in I'm home alone + just in the mood + don't have anything better to do which is coming out to like 1 movie a year and anyway I'm watching Generations and BWHU BU. CONNOR??!!

[frogboyandzombieface]

Stranger Things for the movie/tv show/fandom ask thing?

I. my favourite female character : robin or max !!!! do not ask me to choose ❤️i love this emoji it feels like a meme or like passive aggressive lmao

II. my favourite male character : mike :) i love his stupid insecure gangly little ass . will is a veeerryyy close second tho and dustin!!! he is very sweet and adorable i love him and his little camp know where cap

III. my favourite season : season 2 all the wayyyy bitch . the autumn and 80's vibez, byler, punk eleven which i WISH THEY FUCKING KEPT BECAUSE I LVOE PUMK WOMEN THEY ARE JUST GODS , it got all the good shit

IV. my favourite episode : fuckk um it's definitely gotta be season 1 ep 2 . like , i love seeing the kids so little in the first season and like their interactions with eleven etc are just pure and like they're just Little Kids Doing Shenanigans !!!! AMD MIKE JUST LIKE TAKES IN THIS RANDOM GIRL WITH A SHAVED HEAD AND MASSIVE BURGER T-SHIRT INTO HIS BASEMENT ??!,!:$/ like this little 12 year old boy just wants to help this rando he is so adorable 😭OR season 2 ep 1 . the 80's and HALLOWEEN VIBEZZZ and the party just hanging out and them seeing max for the first time etc . can u see how i can never fucking make up my mind about anything lmao

V. my favourite cast member : AHHH idk i love david harbour hes just like this dilf dad kinda. and he is very supportive and i love seeing his funny insta posts like the Dad Energy is off the charts like i just love it . BUT ALSO MAYA HAWKE ????? SHE IS LIKE COOL AND ALTERNATIVR E AND SHE IS LIKE . so pretty . i am very fruity for her . she just seems really chill and like idk she actually reminds me of robin at least her insta, like she legit is like robin a bit HFHDHD idk . i m gay ❤️

VI. my favourite ship : LMAO definitely byler if u couldnt tell from my blog BUT elmax is a close second ofc !! but like . byler ... is just ...... fucking magnificent broskis i am LOVE . childhood best friends who have been in love since forever and don't even realise and like ?;$:$373727 THEY ARE JUST SO CUTE

VII. a character id die defending : JOYCE. joyce needs a fucking break and she is AWESOME i would snap bitches backs for her as well as for will. thank u

VIII. a character i just cant sympathise with: absolutely billy. he's not a good guy and i don't like how they tried to redeem him, like @hawkinsschoolcounselor said it just makes him pitiable instead of hate- worthy really .

IX. a character i grew to love : mannn i dunno , probably nancy . because i thought she was a bit airheaded and annoying at first but then she really like came around and i really started to like her !!! she is a bad bitch . give her a gun and she bout to pop some heads open

X. my anti-otp : h*rringrove definitely . it's shit lol . the only other ship i at least dislike a bit is m*leven but even then i dont dislike it that much, just don't like the way they handled it and byler is so much better , m*leven's relationship is shallow and possessive and kind of one-sided so ya.

send me an ask about tv shows/movies/fandoms! <3

[garbageshepherd]

What to do when someone is experiencing a psychotic break or episode

(From the perspective of a verifiable psycho)

This guide comes with the preface of:

If you dont have a psychotic person in your life (who is probably already telling you these things) you really. Dont need to insert yourself into most situations where someone is disconnected with reality. As such, im mainly focusing on crisises (in this context a crisis means someone does not have adequate/qualified support to work through a breakdown)

#1 Dont call the fucking police.

Police officers are not mental health specialists, they are regular people at best and paranoid sadists at worst who have guns and license to kill when they "feel threatened", who have had maybe a couple hours of psych training that relies on pseudoscience/bad psychology and fearmongering.

If you call the cops they WILL escalate, they WILL handle it badly, they PROBABLY will traumatize the person, they will LIKELY assume drug use, and an already vulnerable person might die

If you call the cops on a psychotic person and that person dies, idc how good your intentions were, it is (partially) your fault

(Just add a whole mess of exponents to that statement if the psychotic person in question is visibly queer or a person of color, especially a transfemme person or a Black man, but *any* mentally ill person is endangered by cops)

#2 CONSENT

consent doesnt magically disappear when someone is in crisis, and not all psychotic episodes = crisis.

Talk to them!!! They are still a human person!!! Theyre still "in there". Use the rest of this guide to communicate as effectively as you can. Ask before you do anything--before you involve anyone else, before you touch them (at ALL, even a hand on the shoulder needs consent), before you move them, etc. ESTABLISH if they are in crisis. ASK if they want help or attention. ASK if they feel unsafe. ASK ASK ASK.

Crisis is relative!!! For a lot of us, a different experience of "reality" is normal every day business that we live with. Do not assume someone is in crisis unless they tell you. Do not assume they are in pain unless they tell you. Ask if they want help but do not assume they even need intervention unless they consent to it.

#3 do NOT tell them its not real

When im curled up in the corner screaming and in pain, or even sitting catatonic on my bed bc I'm too paranoid to move, shaking me and telling me its not real isnt going to help.

I know its not real. A LOT of psychotic folx know its not real. That actually adds to the problem, because being told "its not real" isnt going to magically make my brain stop fucking making shit up, ok? If im somewhere else and saying shit that doesnt make sense, talking about people youve never heard of, gods angels faeires etc.: dont tell me its not real, ASK. QUESTIONS. A person who does not experience the same reality you do is still a person. Consent does not disappear. We are people whether or not you understand us.

What does that look like? I might be yelling about my friend mike. "Whos mike?" You should ask. Ill tell you that mike is a minor deity and a good friend of mine: you should imagine youre having a conversation with any other person talking about a friend of theirs. "Are they nice?" "How did you meet them?" "Where are they from?" Are all good. Its very context dependent. Listen. Communicate.

The sense of normalcy I am offered when someone asks placating and mundane questions about my celestial headmades does a LOT more to assuage my panic and fear when im in crisis than people telling me its not real amd that i need to "snap out of it"

Imagine a psychotic crisis is like barreling down the highway in a car. Trying to "snap" me "out of it" is dropping a concrete block in front of the vehicle to halt it: my body is going to keep going, smash through the windshield, and do a Lot more damage than say, cutting the engine and letting the car lose momentum on its own.

However, i might ask someone if something is real, if they can see something, etc. If this is the case, be honest, but dont be an asshole.

"No, I cant hear it" "no, i dont see anything jn thr sky" "no, that doesnt seem real to me".

Honest, nonjudgemental.

Its four in the morning so im gonna wrap this up, but I will leave by saying:

Someone having a crisis is as much your responsibility is as mutually agreed upon. If someone is having a psychotic episode and you insert yourself and they tell you to fuck off, even if that person gets hurt afterwards, it is not your responsibility.

Psychotic people are PEOPLE goddamnit which means we always have inate autonomy and our consent or lack therof must be obeyed. We are responsible for our actions. You are not a savior. Etc.